Still wavering on those signs that your husband cheated on you? Not sure what to believe anymore? Well, a woman’s gut feeling and great instincts usually means she’s right on point. Look at the evidence — what does it tell you?
Has your husband had an abrupt onset of changes in his routine? Has he all of a sudden gone shopping for new clothes including new boxer briefs, undershirts and socks? Men often shop for new underclothes at the thought of a new intimate relationship. They are not that much different from women; wanting to look good for the opposite sex, especially in anticipation of a new affair.
His routine probably changed; he most likely makes excuses for needing to be elsewhere and makes it difficult for you to contact him during these escapes. Has he had a renewed interest in going to the gym after work or during the night? Does he ignore his phone calls during these times because it was in the locker room? Does he always have an explanation that throws you off course? The obvious signs that your husband cheated on you are almost always right in front of your face. You know what they say – hiding in plain view?
Men who cheat rarely give out their home phone number but provide a cell phone number and some won’t do that, opting to only be contacted at work. However, if he does receive curious calls to his cell phone and avoid you during these calls, retrieve his cell phone statements and make a note of which numbers are consistent all the time. Does he call this number only during the times he’s at work? When you call the number back who picks up?
An obvious trend is emails being sent back and forth. Do you have access to his emails? If you don’t think about getting a key logger program to retrieve the email password or you could always stand over his shoulder when he’s typing in his password. Obviously, you probably don’t have a good chance at retrieving his password this way but it’s worth a shot.
Another telltale sign that your husband cheated on you is his guilt; has he purchased you gifts lately for no apparent reason? Bought you flowers out of the blue? Many men feel a natural guilt and feel better about their infidelity once they purchase something for you. Their routine won’t change but the guilt subsides because they “honored” you with something.
Keep in mind, if your husband cheated on you he will be very cautious and probably toss out most of the evidence but with infidelity there is always proof left behind if you look closely.